What’s the big deal about kissing, you ask? Well, certain situations call for slight variations in your puckering delivery. Here’s how you can have him spellbound with these four customised kisses that will ensure longer innings in bed, or even a quickie if you are running late for work.
Superhero kiss: Remember when Spiderman (Tobey Maguire) kissed Mary Jane (Kirsten Dunst) hanging upside down? No, we aren’t suggesting that you should climb down some pipes and risk your life for an award-winning kiss. But there is no harm in channeling the inner superhero in you. This kiss is meant for those lazy weekends at home when he is simply relaxing on the couch. Walk up to him from behind, let your finger-grazing-his-neck action get his attention, and before he turns all the way around, gently grab his face and reverse-lip kiss him. Don’t be surprised if his energy levels shoot up suddenly.
Have-him-at-hello kiss: It has been a while since you last saw your partner. Maybe one of you was on a business trip or your crazy work schedules haven’t provided you with the time to truly be with each other. The next time you meet, here’s how to direct all the pent-up love towards him. Let your gaze linger on him for just a second longer to get his heartbeat racing and press your body up against him. Then, keeping your tongue firmly in cheek, smooch him hard and tight and whisper a husky, ‘Hi, babe. I’ve missed you.’ That’s a hello he will be craving to hear every minute.
Hot, movie-like make-out kiss: Admit it, you have always wondered how movie stars don’t end up slobbering all over each other during one of those passionate tongue kiss moments. How can it be so perfect?! This is for those days when you know you want to devour him whole and want to show him just what you mean. Take his hand and place it on your waist, while your hand roams freely up his body. Then lean back ever so slowly so that the already generated adrenaline rush causes him to pull you closer. Then, take the lead and gently part your lips in invitation. Your man will take the hint and you may have to come up for air after five… or 10 minutes?
The lingering kiss: Ask any expert and she will tell you that your kissing session will come to naught if you plan to rush through it. No matter how eager you are to get on to steamier things, a nice long kiss where you both take it easy and slow will get your senses tingling and make you feel super connected to your man. Start focusing on the taste and feel of his lips and brush your fingers against his cheeks. Draw his lips to yours, close your eyes and be in the moment, savoring his mouth slowly. Avoid any rushed movements that will break this meditative feeling.
The of-the-moment kiss: The best kisses are the ones that happen on the spur of the moment. Too much thought can put you under pressure to perform, thereby ruining the moment. Instead, go with the flow and reach in for a kiss when you find him irresistibly inviting. Keep it playful yet smoldering. Start off with a few light nibbles of his lips; tease his mouth open and explore his tongue with yours. Suck on it before you resume the tongue hockey!
The tease: Getting straight to the point with a passionate French kiss might get him too excited and hasten sex when you’d rather indulge in the foreplay for a while longer. Play the tease to prolong the excitement and build up the tension before the two of you explode in carnal passion. Start by kissing him all over his face. Focus on erogenous zones like his ears and his neck. Nibble gently on the sides of his lips and trace his mouth with your tongue. Suck on his lower lip but pull away when he tries to French kiss you. Your blow-hot, blow-cold will work him into a fever pitch.
The X-rated kiss: Get your guy to get naked and sit on a chair while you strip down and straddle him. Grind your hips against his, while you suck on his tongue. It won’t be long before he thrusts into you. Increase the intensity of your kissing to match the force of thrusts. And just when you think you are going to peak, start nibbling at his neck before you go back to exploring his mouth as you ready for release.